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Buddhism --- How to Control the Mind

 In Buddhism , controlling the mind is not viewed as “suppressing thoughts,” but as training awareness so the mind becomes steady, clear, and less driven by craving, fear, anger, and distraction. Different Buddhist traditions vary, but the core framework is remarkably consistent. Core Buddhist View The mind is compared to: a monkey jumping from branch to branch, a wild elephant needing training, or muddy water that becomes clear when left undisturbed. The goal is: Awareness of the mind, Understanding why suffering arises, Gradual cultivation of calm, discipline, wisdom, and compassion. Main Buddhist Methods for Controlling the Mind 1. Mindfulness (Sati) This is the foundation. You observe: thoughts, emotions, bodily sensations, impulses, without immediately reacting. Instead of: “I am angry” you learn to see: “Anger is arising.” That small separation weakens compulsive reactions. Basic Practice Sit quietly. Focus on the breath. ...
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Duncan vs Balmer Lawrie life

 A Duncan Brothers executive and a Balmer Lawrie executive both belonged to the elite British commercial ecosystem of colonial India, but their lifestyles and operating cultures differed quite a bit. The biggest distinction: Duncan executives were heavily tied to the tea plantation world and managing agency culture. Balmer Lawrie executives were more urban-industrial, logistics, shipping, and engineering oriented. 1. Core Identity Duncan Executive The Duncan world revolved around: tea gardens, plantations, jute, managing agencies, and export trade. A Duncan executive was often: a tea planter, agency house manager, or plantation administrator. There was a stronger “planter sahib” culture. Balmer Lawrie Executive More corporate-industrial: shipping, lubricants, engineering, travel, logistics, port operations. Closer to: docks, warehouses, industrial operations, and wartime supply chains. Less romanticized than tea plan...

8 Books That Feel Like Comfort Food for Your Mind

  Authored by:  Girish Shukla 1. The Solitude of Thomas Cave by Georgina Harding Georgina Harding’s novel follows a seventeenth-century English sailor who volunteers to guard a remote Arctic hunting station through the long winter. He expects hardship. What he does not expect is the psychological transformation that solitude brings. Harding writes with restraint and precision. Snow, silence, and memory shape the narrative. The landscape becomes both physical setting and mental space. As months pass, the protagonist confronts loneliness, fear, and unexpected clarity about his life. The novel moves slowly, yet every page deepens its emotional resonance. It offers readers a quiet meditation on isolation, endurance, and the strange peace that can emerge when the world falls silent. 2. The Wallcreeper by Nell Zink Nell Zink’s debut novel moves through Europe with surprising wit and intelligence. The narrator drifts through relationships, political debates, and environmental activis...

8 books that give your mind the break it’s been asking for

8 books that give your mind the break it’s been asking for Story by  Times Now Digital There are days when your mind does not need fixing. It needs quiet. It needs space where nothing is demanding, urgent, or loud. You already know the feeling. You sit down with a book hoping to feel lighter, but many books end up making you do more. Think harder. Change faster. Become better. This list moves in the opposite direction. These books sit with you. They do not rush you. They allow your thoughts to slow down without making you feel like you are falling behind. Here are eight such books that offer your mind a softer place to land. 1. This is One Way to Dance by Sejal Shah This collection of essays moves through identity, loneliness, art, and the quiet search for belonging. Sejal Shah writes with restraint, never forcing meaning or resolution. You sit with her questions more than her answers. The writing feels intimate without being overwhelming. It gives your mind space to reflect on you...